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Oral History Interview with Margaret Bary, November 2, 2010, inclusive

Scope and Contents

During her interview, Margaret Wagner Bary (1957-) describes her family's immigration history in detail. Bary recalls the synagogue's meeting spaces vividly, first in a church on the southeast corner of Clinton and Remsen [Spencer Memorial Church] which has now been converted into apartments; one of her first memories, at 6 years old, is being asked up to bima because it was her birthday that month and Rabbi Gelber lifted her up. She later remembers the services at the Bossert Hotel with Marion Cohen singing and learning about the 1967 [Six-Day Arab-Israeli] war in religious school as it was happening.  She also remembers services at the Grace [Episcopal] Church on Grace Court alley. She describes how her interest in Jewish culture continued through high school and college. Bray joined an Israeli dance club at Hunter High School, participated in a young Jewish leadership program, and traveled to Israel in 1973 (just prior to the Yom Kippur Arab-Israeli war). She describes her dance education beginning with classes taught at Saint Ann's after school, followed by classes in Manhattan and eventually studying with the New Dance Group Studios (Martha Graham), Alvin Ailey Studios, and extensively with Merce Cunningham. She describes wonderfully her family traditions on high holidays and meeting her husband through Israeli folk dancing. Bray and her husband officially joined BHS when their daughter was 8 years old (1995) because they wanted the children to go to Hebrew school. Interview conducted by Sady Sullivan.

Biographical / Historical

Margaret Wagner Bary was born in Brooklyn in 1957 and she grew up in Brooklyn Heights, the oldest of three siblings. She lives with her husband and children, Hannah (1987-) and Joshua (1990-) in a brownstone that they share with her parents on Clinton Street. Her father was born in Brooklyn and his parents were from Ukraine/Russia. Her mother was born in Berlin, Germany and left in the summer of 1940, settling with her family in Shanghai, China and Chicago before marrying and moving to Brooklyn in 1954. Wagner Bary attended elementary school at PS8 in the neighborhood, followed by Hunter High School (1974), SUNY Binghamton, Cornell University, and Sarah Lawrence where she earned an MFA in Dance and Choreography (1982). Since 1991 she has taught creative dance at Brooklyn Friends School. She attended religious education classes at Brooklyn Heights Synagogue as a child but was never bat mitzvahed. She joined BHS in 1995 when her children were young and completed her bat mitzvah when she was 40 years old.

Conditions Governing Access

This interview can be accessed onsite at Brooklyn Historical Society's Othmer Library and online at the Oral History Portal.

Center for Brooklyn History
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